A Tale of Two Dogs and a Cat

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A Tale of Two Dogs and a Cat

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Hello All

Finally managed to join the 21st Century and hopefully continue the support for Jans’s great work by joining the online community!

We have a tale of two dogs and a cat. We first got to meet Jan in around 2000 when after years of childrearing, job chasing, and a long gap of about 5 years from losing our family dog, we made the decision that as now I was an ‘at home’ mum the time was right again for us to add a new member to the family.

Let me introduce Barney. Barney was a huge Goldie, well above the standard height, very placid, stocky and those that see the two strains, very much a showing line rather than a working line. He was 18 months old when we gave him his forever home. Barney dripped devotion from every hair. We have never met before or since a most wonderful loyal companion, who was completely family focussed. He belonged to us all, and just delighted in being in our company.

In 2002 we ‘aquired’ a kitten. A typical street cat, who immediately adopted Barney as his new Dad. To us humans he’s a nasty little wretch but the type you cant help but love for his character. But to Barney they were Dad and Son. Barney allowed the kitten to grow, claw, leap, sleep and never objected to anything. In 2003 we had Barney passported and from that point on he travelled extensively through France thoroughly enjoying each and every holiday with us. In 2004, Barneys cruciate went on his rear leg. On recommendation from the Vet we went to a specialist in St Helens who was extremely positive about surgery, (hed operated on the Harry Potter dog actually at the time of filming!) and we proceeded. I have to say the results were indeed brilliant, and very quickly Barney was as active as he’d always been.

However, on Easter weekend 2005, on his morning walk, Barney quite inexplicably keeled over and died. He was 6. The comfort we have always carried from this is that it was like a bolt of lightning as he was running through his favourite field with that huge grin on his huge face, and the next moment he was gone. The vets opinion was a massive brain haemorrhage. The house was in mourning. I couldn’t look at photographs for a year, and well if that wasn’t upsetting enough, the Cat spent a year waiting by the window……… Then along came SANDY! (God bless you Jan!) Oh yes another trip to Euxton for one of Jans ‘special’ cases needing a forever home….. Sandy. Sandy came with a certified warning. ‘DESTRUCTIVE CHEWER’.

On first meeting (not the usual roll over stroke my belly one, but the Im sooooooo excited I cant keep still one) Jan suggested we walk him for a little, and just think a little longer. Well 200 yards of being dragged up the drive and that was it. Decision made. Yes the perfect dog for us! Well the bundle of exploding energy arrived home with us, the Cat didn’t have a clue what this thing was all about and we rapidly set into our routine. The first week, we lost a table leg, 2 mobile phones, and despite constant reminders that the kitchen must be dog proofed overnight, those family members stupid enough to leave their shoes in the kitchen came down to leather strips in the morning. We only had tears once when my daughter ‘lost’ her best jumper to the smiling assassin but it was indeed soon forgiven.

I can only stress at this point to those that may have chewers, that routine is everything. Within 2 weeks it had completely stopped. We fed each day to the minute. Walked and schooled twice a day to the minute, and went to bed/got up to the minute. Sandy is definitely a ‘working’ line, and was a sponge absorbing every new command and praise and loving his new ‘retrieving job’. We never once chastised him for bad behaviour and merely persisted in removing the wet and soggy inappropriate chewing item, for appropriate ones. Of course he isn’t quite perfect. Leave your dinner on the side and itll be gone, but the joy and pride we have in him for turning into one of the smartest obedient animals Ive known (along with the usual Goldie loyalty) is wonderful. His vocabulary is up to over a fifty words now. He will heel walk, (no more pulling), long distance retrieve, seek out, (which really impresses the locals as they ask him to go find lost golf balls), swim retrieve, identify different objects, and of course completely lose all mental capacity and self control when it comes to rabbits.

Weve now had him 2 years, is passported and as with Barney loves the travelling., Hes still learning, still a ball of exploding energy, but has indeed turned out to be a wonderful dog, who has shown us how to look at Barneys pictures without a tear. Thank you so much Jan.

Oh and as to the cat, Ill let the picture tell that story………….

Well done to all Goldie lovers, and especially a huge thanks to Jan. Caroline and Simon.

Sandy and Cat
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Re: A Tale of Two Dogs and a Cat

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Hello Caroline welcome to the site.

Lovely to hear from you. I remember them both so well Barney was a gentleman, and Sandy , was just Sandy. I do remember asking you to think about taking him on as he was a chewer. You have worked wonders with him and the photo tells it all The cat is obviously content with the situation. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

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A lovely story, and so beautifully told.
Well done you. Sandy and the cat look so peaceful together.
Also, welcome to the site. :2035:
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Hi, and welcome :2035:

I love your story, as Lynn says, beautifully told.
All your patience and hard work has helped Sandy become a wonderfull member of your family.
Super picture of them both.
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Thank you for the warm welcome, and thank you Jan yes Barney was indeed a true gentleman. ( I will post on Rainbow Bridge). We feel so privelidged to have had the opportunity to share our lives with these wonderful dogs, and if we can add tips or experience to the forum, certainly in any of the areas mentioned above, I thought it would be nice to share our story with you.

Im just bawling at Woody's First Film, isnt it beautiful..... Oh what do these dogs do to us?!
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What a lovely story and lovely photographs... I wished my two liked cats as we have several closeby and two next door, Ginnie only has to hear the cat flap clunk and her ears are to attention, followed by a patrol around the garden if the back door is open.

I remember that walk down the driveway... it was more terrifying that taking my driving test....I was frightened that Abby would bark at Ginnie....not so much to worry about when we collected Cobi in 2005. I hope Jan doesn't mind me saying this but within a week of losing Abby, Ginnie just had to have another pal, and we had to have a distraction for our grief.. I can remember her words, as she told me she had a young bitch in, my husband and I both said together we'll be up to collect her the day after, What if she doesn't suit she said, I quickly said, she's got 4 legs, 2 ears, a head and a tail - of course she'll suit !! and Ginnie then had another playmate to love, cherish and batter, of all the goldens we have owned these two are the best together, there are no arguments when they share a dish or plate, they just get on so well with each other and lots of other dogs that have come into our home or whilst we're caravanning.

Cobi 'trashed' our leather sofa, the week after we had her...I didn't shout at her, there was foam everywhere and leather !! I put her outside in the garden, and cleared it away, I'd only gone out for 40mins to the Doctors (I went deaf in one ear after Abby had died, suppose because I was so upset)
Poor little mite, don't think Cobi had been in a car much, it took months to get over her car sickness, but as soon as she did, she's always first in the car, and sometimes just sits in there with the tailgate up, whilst Ginnie is busy dragging the vet beds out from underneath her so she can assault them and go into her trance!
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What a fantastic story, it's just so lovely when animals love each other! The picture is great too, I really must learn how to post the pictures. :2035: Carole x
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What a truely amazing story, i loved reading all about Sandy and Barney.
We too had a golden that died suddenly like Barney was 6, the shock is the worst thing to deal with.
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I think youre so right Sonia, the shock as it was so unexpected really was very difficult. Weve had several family dogs, and life has taken its natural course. Whilst it doesnt lessen the loss, there is a certain amount of preparation in old age, and if we're lucky, a chance to say goodbye. I think in sudden cases like this, the 'why our beautiful boy?' stalls the grieving process. It really did take a long time for me to look at his photos, and I can honestly say I would bawl at some of the most inappropiate times... What was it about studying tins of tuna in Asda that suddenly brought on a sob?!!!!!!! And if someone kind enough enquired if everything was OK, Id blubber Id lost my dog........ 6 months ago!!!! And Im a sensible, practical woman!

But what can I say, we then had a space for an equally needy 'cousin', and Im sure Barney would approve that his bed was occupied once more............... Strangely enough though, I do often wonder how this random reckless ball of energy called Sandy, immediately stepped into the role of surrogate Dad to Cat. He would be the last 'type' of character you'd expect to take positively to small furry instantly accessible 'bait', and we were expecting to take a long time to introduce them gradually. Yet from the moment they first met, he too chose to nurture. I like to think the hand of fate, and the spirit of Barney had a hand in this......
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